Do you love or are you loved.?

Hi there,

A simple question you think.

Actually it's one of the hardest questions you can ever answer with confidence.

You may think you give love but on each decision check your thought and see who is first in that decision process. It will usually be YOU meaning you DO NOT LOVE FULLY. Unless the person you are partners with or your child comes first you are still a self centred. egotastical ME ME ME.

And that also tells people you don't know yourself AT ALL as you are afraid to put others first. Until you know everything about yourself and accept them and love how you live you will always be a person who is afraid of loving q\and being loved, because you will be scared of losing such. You WILL need to make changes to yourself and how you live. I guarantee that. Are you capable? 

For example, your religious beliefs. Have you ever seriously examined and questioned them? I say you haven't and are too afraid to even think about it. At that point you are already fucked and can never truly love. Get it yet? Don't swallow other people's opinions before you test them. You do that with food don't you? Beliefs are way more important yet you just accept. Stupidity personified.

Learn about YOU before you start idolising people who have nothing to offer. Once you know yourself fully you will also know who is not worthy of your attention. Stop being afraid, jealous and paranoid and love fully and without feARr