Hi there,
I read so many posts from people talking about hoe they are always happy and how to be always happy etc etc etc.
Load of absloute bullshit.
You see, happiness is an emotion. Emotions are not permenent states, they are temporary. Anger, sadness, misery, joy, bliss, all temporary states achieved as the result of an event, a meeting of people, a movie, a book, what someone said, anything can produce emotional reaction. And it is ALWAYS temporary.
It is not feasible, or possible, to be happy ALL THE TIME. If you were, you would be a congenital idiot.
Emotions are meant to vary, else your life would be so much the same every day and you'd die of boredom.
Just imagine, for a moment, that you were the same level of happy every single day of your life. Would that then not just be "normal" for you and of course, being a human, you would want MORE, Some higher level of happiness. Bliss perhaps. Humans are never satisfied with what they are or what they have. It's part of our nature.
I have met several people who ARE happy all the time. Regrettably they are permanently an inpatient of mental institutions and tend to play one role day in, day out. As such they ARE happy but it is likely they will come down from that manic high and feel so bad they will want to die. They are bi polar 1 affected people. Not all BP1's are like that but some are. And must be locked away for their own safety.
If you see someone write "I am always happy", be assured, they are definitely not. If they were why would they need to say it? To make others feel bad of course.
If you see someone write "Iwant to be happy all the time" you can tell them life is about the contrast of emotions and having just one emotion is the worst state you can be in. As depression demonstrates. Always miserable, you want to die.
No, it is the variety of emotions that enable us to live these lives we have. Look at happy as short, relief periods which can be as short as a chuckle or as long as that falling in love with someone who reciprocates. That's the longest period of happiness I know. And I've been through it six times. Seriously in love. You can't wait to be with that person and when you are, you are replete, satisfied, until you must part again when you start waiting the next meeting. That is by far the longest happiness can last, in my opinion.
As usual, here's a song lyric for you on this topic.Great old song, had it forever on vinyl myself.
"If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life" by Jimmy Soul. An oldie.
I read so many posts from people talking about hoe they are always happy and how to be always happy etc etc etc.
Load of absloute bullshit.
You see, happiness is an emotion. Emotions are not permenent states, they are temporary. Anger, sadness, misery, joy, bliss, all temporary states achieved as the result of an event, a meeting of people, a movie, a book, what someone said, anything can produce emotional reaction. And it is ALWAYS temporary.
It is not feasible, or possible, to be happy ALL THE TIME. If you were, you would be a congenital idiot.
Emotions are meant to vary, else your life would be so much the same every day and you'd die of boredom.
Just imagine, for a moment, that you were the same level of happy every single day of your life. Would that then not just be "normal" for you and of course, being a human, you would want MORE, Some higher level of happiness. Bliss perhaps. Humans are never satisfied with what they are or what they have. It's part of our nature.
I have met several people who ARE happy all the time. Regrettably they are permanently an inpatient of mental institutions and tend to play one role day in, day out. As such they ARE happy but it is likely they will come down from that manic high and feel so bad they will want to die. They are bi polar 1 affected people. Not all BP1's are like that but some are. And must be locked away for their own safety.
If you see someone write "I am always happy", be assured, they are definitely not. If they were why would they need to say it? To make others feel bad of course.
If you see someone write "Iwant to be happy all the time" you can tell them life is about the contrast of emotions and having just one emotion is the worst state you can be in. As depression demonstrates. Always miserable, you want to die.
No, it is the variety of emotions that enable us to live these lives we have. Look at happy as short, relief periods which can be as short as a chuckle or as long as that falling in love with someone who reciprocates. That's the longest period of happiness I know. And I've been through it six times. Seriously in love. You can't wait to be with that person and when you are, you are replete, satisfied, until you must part again when you start waiting the next meeting. That is by far the longest happiness can last, in my opinion.
As usual, here's a song lyric for you on this topic.Great old song, had it forever on vinyl myself.
"If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life" by Jimmy Soul. An oldie.
"If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life
Never make a pretty woman your wife
So from my personal point of view
Get an ugly girl to marry you
If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life
Never make a pretty woman your wife
So from my personal point of view
Get an ugly girl to marry you
A pretty woman makes her husband look small
And very often causes his downfall
As soon as he marries her then she starts
To do the things that will break his heart
But if you make an ugly woman your wife
you'll be happy for the rest of your life
An ugly woman cooks meals on time
And she'll always give you peace of mind
If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life
Never make a pretty woman your wife
So from my personal point of view
Get an ugly girl to marry you
Sax solo
Don't let your friends say you have no taste
Go ahead and marry anyway
Though her face is ugly, her eyes don't match
Take it from me, she's a better catch
If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life
Never make a pretty woman your wife
So from my personal point of view
Get an ugly girl to marry you
Spoken:
Say man!
Hey baby!
I saw your wife the other day!
Yeah?
Yeah, an' she's ug-leeee!
Yeah, she's ugly, but she sure can cook, baby!
Yeah, alright!
If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life
Never make a pretty woman your wife
So from my personal point of view
Get an ugly girl to marry you
If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life
Never make a pretty woman your wife
So from my personal point of view
Get an ugly girl to marry you
If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life
Never make a pretty woman your wife
So from my personal point of view
Get an ugly girl to marry you
If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life
Never make a pretty woman your wife
So from my personal point of view
Get an ugly girl to marry you"
Never make a pretty woman your wife
So from my personal point of view
Get an ugly girl to marry you
If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life
Never make a pretty woman your wife
So from my personal point of view
Get an ugly girl to marry you
A pretty woman makes her husband look small
And very often causes his downfall
As soon as he marries her then she starts
To do the things that will break his heart
But if you make an ugly woman your wife
you'll be happy for the rest of your life
An ugly woman cooks meals on time
And she'll always give you peace of mind
If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life
Never make a pretty woman your wife
So from my personal point of view
Get an ugly girl to marry you
Sax solo
Don't let your friends say you have no taste
Go ahead and marry anyway
Though her face is ugly, her eyes don't match
Take it from me, she's a better catch
If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life
Never make a pretty woman your wife
So from my personal point of view
Get an ugly girl to marry you
Spoken:
Say man!
Hey baby!
I saw your wife the other day!
Yeah?
Yeah, an' she's ug-leeee!
Yeah, she's ugly, but she sure can cook, baby!
Yeah, alright!
If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life
Never make a pretty woman your wife
So from my personal point of view
Get an ugly girl to marry you
If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life
Never make a pretty woman your wife
So from my personal point of view
Get an ugly girl to marry you
If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life
Never make a pretty woman your wife
So from my personal point of view
Get an ugly girl to marry you
If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life
Never make a pretty woman your wife
So from my personal point of view
Get an ugly girl to marry you"
Sounds like a theory doesn't it?
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